Sunday, December 3, 2023

Conquer Gambling Urges: Steps to Overcome Addiction and Reclaim Control"

We all have it, a strong desire or impulse. Urges. The first step to battling urges is being able to recognize and understand what trigger you. What sets off that urge to gamble? Is it stress, boredom or an adrenaline rush? Once you have been able to identify the triggers, it is easier to battle these urges. 

Building a support team around you is imperative to overcoming these urges. Whether its family, friends or a support group, having people to lean on during those tough moments can make a world of difference. Talking to others who are in a similar journey or have been through similar issues as you have is a great way to curb these urges as well. One such community making a profound impact is the Discord server "Compulsive Gamblers in Recovery."

Founded with the mission to provide a safe and understanding space for those struggling with compulsive gambling, this online community has become a beacon of hope for individuals seeking support and solidarity on their journey to overcome addiction.

Within the virtual halls of this Discord server, members find a sense of camaraderie and understanding that is often lacking in their day-to-day lives. Here, individuals from all walks of life come together to share their experiences, offer advice, and lend a listening ear to those in need.

One of the most powerful aspects of the "Compulsive Gamblers in Recovery" Discord server (https://discord.gg/bEfVP4FK) is its emphasis on empathy and non-judgment. Regardless of how dire our situations may seem, members are met with compassion and encouragement rather than condemnation. This culture of acceptance fosters a sense of belonging and empowerment, empowering individuals to confront their addiction head-on.

Moreover, the server provides practical resources and tools to aid in recovery efforts. From tips on managing triggers to information about local support groups and therapy options, members have access to a wealth of knowledge and expertise to help them navigate the challenges of overcoming compulsive gambling.

But perhaps the most valuable aspect of this community is the shared journey towards recovery. By connecting with others who understand their struggles intimately, members gain a sense of hope and determination that fuels their commitment to change. Through shared victories and setbacks, they learn that they are not alone in their fight and that recovery is possible with the right support system in place.

Distract yourself: when the urges hit, steer your focus elsewhere. Pick up a new hobby, go for a walk or run, volunteer at a shelter or soup kitchen, or binge-watch that series you have been eyeing. Whatever you do, DO. NOT. GAMBLE. One of the tools SMART Recovery focuses on is building an urges log. Basically, making a list of different activities you either like or want to do. Put them in a jar, when you feel an urge coming on, take on out and do that activity. Limit access to gambling temptations. Block the sites, ditch the casino apps (real and fake) and even avoid places that trigger your urge. Out of sight, out of mind, right?


But hey, let’s keep it real- slip ups happen. If you find yourself stumbling into the gambling zone, don’t beat yourself up. It is not about the fall; it's about the getting back and dusting yourself off. Reflect on what led you there, learn from it and get back on track. 


Seeking out professional help is a huge tool to have in your arsenal when it comes to overcoming any kind of addiction. I will forever be an advocate for this as they can help us understand what is going on mentally. Therapists, counselors, or support hotlines- are all guides through this battlefield of addiction. Never underestimate the power of professional support. 


Always Remember: progress is not always a straight line. It is a journey filled with twists and turns. Celebrate the small victories along the way- theyre like XP points in your quest to conquer those gambling urges. Together, we can live a better life. One day at a time. 

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